My sister loves her in-laws. They are wonderful people. She even works with her mother in law at her mother in laws business. She spends alot of time with her mother in law and father in law and her in laws are pretty great to her. The problem is her husband. He’s a tool. They have a wonderful little boy who is 11 now and he spends no time with his son or his wife. He works bc he’s a workaholic. They don’t need him to work that much. He is never home. On his day off he is out and about instead of being home with his son and his wife. My sister is a great mom. She is at every game with the other parents (and my nephew knows his dad is missing). You know who is never missing- his grandparents. His father’s parents are never missing and he is so close to his paternal grandfather that I honestly think he loves him more than his father. My sister loves her in laws so much and I know if she leaves her husband she will miss her in laws. Does anyone else out there love their in-laws but can’t stand their spouse? I always hear the opposite. Just curious.