my husband told me he would consider divorce if i don't breastfeed.
we don't have kids and im not pregnant but we are discussing it. we've discussed it in the past, but never really in depth.
i would like to have a child in the next 2-4 years or so, but i just simply don't wanna breastfeed. there's a lot of downsides, side effects, things that can happen, and after 9 months of pregnancy + childbirth, i just simply don't want to do it.
i told my husband this and he said i would be depriving our child of what it needs, i'd be selfish, and id be "selfish for not doing everything i can to make sure our baby is healthy." he told me if i decide not to breastfeed, divorce would be on the table. he did say if i physically can't, then that's obviously fine.
i love my husband so much, and i do not want to ever divorce. but it's either breastfeed or else he'll divorce me, and i can't believe he's saying this. i'm completely lost. i'm so depressed.