I have made him cum with a blowjob and a handjob once each but usually he just jerks himself off on me/to me. I havent been able to make him cum through regular PIV sex.
He says its not me and that its a mix of wearing a condom and not being able to go fast enough (he usually jerks off at just his tip going really fast and I cant really replicate that). He is also on anti-depressants but he cums fine by himself. We did not use a condom once and he said he got closer but still no joy.
Is there anything I can do to make him cum or is it just an issue with me? We have done doggy and missionary but usually im on top. Should I just try to get healthier so I can stay on top and ride for longer?
Its really kind of making me depressed. Im a giver and so when he doesnt cum or get close I cant really get into it. It also takes a long time for him to cum/get close from my handjobs or blowjobs.
I just want to know if its a me issue or if theres anything I can do. Ive talked to him about it and he says its not me…but I kind of feel like it is. We are both each others firsts and I kind of jut feel like im not good enough at it so any tips would be appreciated (I do watch videos to try and learn but obviously thats not working so).