I’ve had 6 full term pregnancies. With each pregnancy I felt so sick and awful….and my babies were rubbish sleepers.. I was so exhausted. All told I had zero desire for sex for long stretches of time. Sometimes I’d be responsively interested…
anyways… now I feel like I’m on the other side of things. My youngest is now 3 and a half. But now my husband has been having lots of headaches… stomach issues (he’s always struggled there, but now it’s worse)… he’ll pass out exhausted before we have a chance to connect… etc
I’d say I’m interested in getting it on most nights but 3/4 of the time he has a headache, passes out, or just doesn’t show interest… and I just feel so bummed and frustrated. But a small part of me just laughs to myself…like now I know… really know what he felt like. 😅 It’s crazy because sometimes I will feel so butt hurt/personally offended even though I know…he just physically has stuff going on making him uninterested.
Life is funny.
Side note: not looking to chat with any men. Please don’t send any weird messages.