I’m not sure if I am using the right flair, but here it goes. I (f31) and husband (m40) have been having issues with intercourse. We get ready for it, both are enthusiastic, but in the middle of it he loses his erection. I never say anything about it when it happens, I just start kissing him or he starts trying to pleasure me and I go back to trying to pleasure him.
He tells me that sometimes PIV is painful for him. He asked me if I feel it when he starts to lose his erection and tbh I don’t. It doesn’t take much for it to feel good for me. He says that sometimes I move too much and the angle gets off, and it’s like a kink in a hose and he loses it.
We have tried different positions, and when it feels really good and he will say “stay still, I really like this,” and I will try my best to stay still and hold whatever position my pelvis is in for him. But this problem keeps happening.
I went to the OBGYN (I am 9 months post partum) and had a recent pap. My anatomy is normal. His is too.
What can we do? He has suggested practicing positions (essentially dry humping) to find better angles for him.