Hello,
I’m writing here because I’ve been having issues with my boyfriend. We were actually long distance, but recently met. Neither of us are experienced and this is actually our first times. We started off by kissing and eventually he started touching me and giving me oral. I eventually did the same thing to him. But I noticed that he couldn’t orgasm. We tried again today, and it was the same thing. He would also lose his erection whenever it was time to put on the condom and do penetration.
I feel like it’s starting to affect my self esteem and I don’t know if I’m the problem. Maybe he’s just not that into it.
He says I’m not initiating things, but I’m not sure how I’m supposed to do that when I’m equally as shy and actually trying to take things slow. He said that he compliments me when he is performing oral on me but he felt I wasn’t doing the same. But how am supposed to do that when I’m giving oral?
We’d appreciate any advice or opinion.