I’m currently dating a new guy, and I want to have sex with him, but should I tell him I’m a virgin?

I have told him I’m not very sexually experienced. But he may not deduce virgin from that due to my age (plus I am a conventionally attractive woman).

Originally I didn’t sleep with men because of trauma. Then when I finally got the help I needed to heal and was ready to have sex, I ended up with a boyfriend who couldn’t perform after he found out. I think it made him too nervous so the whole time we were together we did other stuff but he never managed to take my virginity.

If I tell this new guy, is that going to happen again? Should I not say anymore than I have already said? (I haven’t mentioned trauma either)

Going to stay a virgin until the end of time at this rate 🙃


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