So far, this relationship has been freshly new between my boyfriend (M28) and I (F23). We had been friends for more than two years and eventually things happened and we began to talk to each other. It's been barely a month now, actually going to be a month soon. But so far there is one thing that constsntly keeps bothering me.
He shows up late. I try to reason myself, saying oh hes got work. He needs time for himself to get ready, and eat before he heads towards my place. Or he just needs to rest up.
But it's just been starting to become a constant thing. He'll text me he'll be there in a bit, and in a bit becomes over an hour. Or he'll say he'll be there in an hour. And then another hour passes by after that said hour. I try to not get angry. Cause when I do get upset, he apologizes. And I forgive him. But this is really starting to get on my nerves. And Im just wondering if Im overreacting.
TLDR: Boyfriend keeps showing up late about 1-2hrs or more and I fear Im normalizing it but I am getting annoyed by it. But I fear Im being too picky.