So this year my hubby and I (33) decided not to do gifts. We decided to do more for the kids and stuff around the house. He for example bought a new couch. I bought us new pans. All fine and all. Christmas for our family we opened gifts early. We both stuck to our guns and no gifts. We spent Christmas Day out of state in Florida. He was in charge of stockings. Lo and behold Christmas Day all the stockings were full including mine. I felt like ass because his was empty. He didn’t stick to our rules and I feel bad. Probably spent a couple hundred easily filling my stocking (gift cards, makeup, perfume, etc).
Any way to get over this guilt?