Hi, I’m looking for advice on how to handle a situation that’s been bothering me.
A few nights ago, I went on my boyfriend’s phone to look for a photo, and out of curiosity I checked his hidden folder. I wasn’t expecting to find anything, but I came across a recent photo of his ex that she had posted on TikTok, showing her figure. For some context, a few months ago I asked him to block her on TikTok because I felt uncomfortable with her repeatedly appearing on his For You page. Seeing this made me worry that he may not have blocked her and could still be checking her content, which hurt my trust.
As I scrolled further, I also found old nude photos and sex videos from when they were together. They broke up about three years ago. When I asked him about it, he said he “didn’t know” and that he forgot to delete them.
This situation brought back a lot of insecurity for me, especially since she was his first serious relationship. I’m feeling confused, hurt, and unsure how to move forward.
What do you think i should do now?