My (M31) partner (F30) has a specific way to O. Any methods to help introduce new ways?
December 23, 2025
She can come with a vibrator but that's it. Not just a 'me thing', as many other partners haven't made her come through PIV/head. Is it possible for her to learn new ways or is her body locked in like that from now on?
5 comments
It’s very normal for woman to need clitoral stimulation, either with a vibrator or their hands.
Unfortunately I am this way, but there have been a dozen times where head/fingers/penetration made me cum. Just not consistently.
This is normal for a lot of women. Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. My wife also needs a vibe on her clit to cum. What seems to be the problem? Are you watching too much inaccurate porn? Have you not read anything on female sexuality?
Do you think that for some reason, your magic cock should make her orgasm through piv?
Not trying to come off too harsh but it seems you’re trying to make a you problem into a her problem. She knows what gets her off. Run with it.
You can’t but she could. It is possible to re-train the body but it would require a lot of patience by slowly shifting clit stim to stimulation of other places. The most potent sexual organ is the mind, some folks train to orgasm on command with little to no physical stimulation at all.
Some women REALLY struggle to cum. Some never can. Even with a vibrator.
I need a vibrator as well as being in the exact right position and not being distracted. It kind of sucks. But it is what it is.
5 comments
It’s very normal for woman to need clitoral stimulation, either with a vibrator or their hands.
Unfortunately I am this way, but there have been a dozen times where head/fingers/penetration made me cum. Just not consistently.
This is normal for a lot of women. Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. My wife also needs a vibe on her clit to cum. What seems to be the problem? Are you watching too much inaccurate porn? Have you not read anything on female sexuality?
Do you think that for some reason, your magic cock should make her orgasm through piv?
Not trying to come off too harsh but it seems you’re trying to make a you problem into a her problem. She knows what gets her off. Run with it.
You can’t but she could. It is possible to re-train the body but it would require a lot of patience by slowly shifting clit stim to stimulation of other places. The most potent sexual organ is the mind, some folks train to orgasm on command with little to no physical stimulation at all.
Some women REALLY struggle to cum. Some never can. Even with a vibrator.
I need a vibrator as well as being in the exact right position and not being distracted. It kind of sucks. But it is what it is.