I dated someone from June to September. I really liked him! It was my first real attempt to get into a relationship after my break up 2 years ago. It started good and he seemed like a really nice guy. But then his pace started to slow down. I confronted him at some point and he said that it was his work his phd I knew this were not valid reasons and we also talked about our ex-es where he also states that his relationship has ended a long time ago and he was over it. Even though he told Bs reasons he was still pursuing me and silly me thought of giving it another chance. In September we had a date and we ended up being intimate with each other but when things started getting heated he told me that this was just a one night stand. When I asked him what? why? He said that he randomly “had bumped into his ex” and he had feelings for her.
I stopped it there with him and I told him I deserve more. But it’s been 3 months and there is not a day that I don’t think about it. Sometimes I feel resentment, sometimes I feel sad. It was a something that never began, why it’s taking so much space in my mind and heart. I feel angry that he has moved on and is ok but Im over here replaying everything from that day. I feel stuck.