So my wife (F27) and I (M27) are planning to go on a final vacation before trying for another kid near the end of February (not actual final, we just know it will be a while before we get to travel again). It is a family vacation, so our child is coming, but we will have family with us we trust to take care of them, so I think we will be able to have a night to ourselves.
We do have sex pretty regularly, anywhere from 1-3 time a week depending on schedules, But on the vacation I wanted to take advantage of not just having the normal parent quickie, and wanted to make the most of it. Even though we will start trying for another kid, anyone who has had to try hard for a kid knows, it at some point it seems more like a transaction than intimacy.
That being said, I was thinking of gifting her (and myself) some new lingerie, she hasn't bought any since pre first child. So a couple new sets to make her feel sexy and confident. I do think she is hot and sexy, but she can sometimes not feel that way as a somewhat newish mom, and I just want her to be confident she's attractive, like I think she is. Then obviously taking her on a nice date that same night.
Any other suggestions on ways to either spice up foreplay, she does have a bit of an exhibitionist Kink, but we both tend to chicken out as opposed to actually do it. Maybe not full public sex, but something that can be done in public. Or any fun "rules" that might make things more exciting in general.
Is this too much for the date night? Am I setting myself up for failure? Any thoughts or suggestions would be helpful.