I got this new wand vibrator and its vibrations are pretty strong as well when i try it on my hand. I just cant feel anything literally nothing on my clit or the lips of vagina. I tried it through my panties and did feel good but i dont really enjoy maturbating with panties on.My bsf has a bullet type vibrator and says she feels its intense and good. Am i using the vibrator wrong or the wrong type of vibrator? Pls do tell me different positions i can try it in.