I [24m] recently had my first date (also first real date ever) with [29f]. I was incredibly anxious while waiting for her (I got to the place half an hour earlier), but it went better than expected. We sat on some bench and laughed for a few hours. She's really good at talking, I am quite alright at listening. So pretty, smart, I was even confused why she would choose to go on a date with me. We had some light touches (75% her 25% me, I was kind of not sure how I should do it, but she's so natural), some personal stories.

We were like that for about 2.5 hours then she said it's probably time to finish the date. We headed to the train station, I wanted to take her by the hand but she somehow understood it as linking arms (or just decided it's the better way, no idea). We went to the train station, and before parting I looked at her and she seemed like she was was waiting for something, I also had quite a chemistry at that point, so I felt that I should kiss her. Went for a little kiss (actually my first kiss ever so it was probably pretty bad and extremely light), after that I went for a hug. I said that it was a great time and we should go for another date. We exchanged numbers and chatted a little back and forth for a few days.

Now, second date is coming and I feel even more anxious then before the first one, haha. Should I greet her with a kiss? Or should I hug her instead? What should we do later. When or how should I tell that I'm basically a virgin (although girls are pretty good at this, so there is a good chance that she'll understand it herself). I am definitely under some chemistry now, so I restrain myself from saying what I feel at this point. But overall, what would be your advice?


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