a guy i’ve only been on one date with, but have spoken to a lot, offered to take me to the ballet & fireworks for new years. i have no other plans & don’t want to be alone
normally it’d be an instant no, but i’ve been feeling pretty lonely recently & i don’t really know where i stand with my friends so going out with them doesn’t seem super likely
about the guy – he’s definitely very into me & seems to move way faster than any guy i’ve ever met (keeps saying how good we are for eachother & kinda offered to have me move in with him next year – since i’m having issues finding a new place). i think things might be a bit accelerated on his end, because his last relationship was 6yrs & he moved city to get away & doesn’t really have any friends here yet. he’s already told me he’s very lonely (i haven’t told him i am too)
the problem is with how fast he moves & how unsure i am about him, i feel like going would kinda give him the impression that i’m on the same timing as him. but i’m also really fucking lonely & i’m dreading the thought of being alone on new years – i know he feels the same because he’s super open about his feelings. i feel like wanting to not be alone is a shitty reason, but at the same time it would make us both a little less lonely for a night so is it really that bad? he does ballet & fireworks every year & loves it, but said if he doesn’t have anyone to go with this year he’ll stay at home
idk we’re also both on the spectrum (him more than me) so idk if i’m just overthinking because of that
would it really be that bad if i took him up on his offer just so neither of us are alone on new years?
– alternatively, i could potentially book a flight & spend the night in a different country, kinda spenny to book now though