Hi, new here. We’ve been married 10 years. We have a 9 and a 10 year old. We don’t live near family so we don’t have babysitters. We have lots of toys and lingerie and we know how to be sexy. But we both work full time and the kids go to bed around about the same time as we do. How are wild nights of fantasy even possible? A quick fumble in the dark is all we can manage. How do others do it? Even with a baby sitter, we’ll only get a few hours out in the evening – not really sure how to turn that into anything!