My husband is my first. I have never given head until him. He in a way taught me everything I know now. I’ve discovered I love giving him head. I’ve gotten to the point where I can make him finish within 3 minutes.

Besides just laying in bed can I give him head. Or what other ways are there to not make it so repetitive? Just want to surprise him and keep things fresh.


35 comments

  1. You’re doing just fine. Your husband is a lucky man and I’m sure he knows it. Why change perfection.

  2. Three minutes – not sure he’ll ever see it as repetitive.

    How about him sitting on the couch (with a smoke or drink, if he cares to) while you do your thing? Being out of the bedroom makes it clear that it is for his enjoyment only, no reciprocation needs (not that there shouldn’t be reciprocation, just that a no strings attached bj is wonderful.

  5. Or with your head on his belly where he can touch your body and go very slow and enjoy each other .make time stop

  6. Anywhere, any time and use your imagination. 3 minutes may be impressive but the longer you can stretch it out and perhaps start and stop in different positions and places will add that much more. Surprise blow jobs are a bonus, like “oh sorry didn’t see you there (while in any location) and followed by un zipping. Oh, eye contact is super hot too

  7. When we first met my wife wasn’t too fond of giving head, she didn’t hate it, but, she didn’t love it either. I won a bet with her where she agreed to give me head every day for a week. After the “payment” was over she continued giving BJ’s and began to like it and later on loving it. She developed a penis fetish, not just head, which is more common than I thought. Sometimes she teases me about halfway through a few times then says “I’ll finish the job later”.

  9. Him standing in front of your for a submissive position or him on all fours ass up face down for a dominant position.

  10. Too many blow jobs is not a problem I’ve ever had, and I don’t think I would be capable of ever feeling that way.

  11. I like a nice open mouth throat fuck. Bonus if you try to say the alphabet while gagging.

  13. I think I’m about on the same page as you.

    Just the other night, I stood up and ordered my husband to get to the edge of the bed.

    Both were on *my* knees. One could be him laying back or him standing up.

    Guarantee you that he moved though.

  14. My wife is the same, and I can assure you that you are doing everything fine. You can explore new sex positions and places to do it if you want to spice things up.

  15. I once had someone just arriving at my house kiss me heavily at the door for a few minutes then surprise me with this right there (after closing the door) Not something I’d ever expect but omg I still remember it. Obviously you’d have to notice he’s ready and willing etc.

  16. If you’re on the the couch and he walks by to go to the kitchen, for example, make him stop, pull down his shorts, if any, and give him a surprise BJ.

  17. You on your knees in front of him while he stands above you.

    You laying on your back on the bed with your head over the side.

    69

  19. Certainly him the sitting in a chair or sofa with you kneeling as someone mentioned is always hot and different. Also try places like in the car in a parking lot or your garage/driveway after a dinner date or outside maybe in your backyard or the woods somewhere that’s very private and secluded.

    Sometimes when my wife and I are in our pool together when the kids are gone, we’ll start fooling around and I’ll sit on the edge with my feet hanging in the water at a spot that’s the right depth for her mouth to be even with my crotch and let her work her magic. Then I do the same to her with her legs wrapped around my neck.

    Lastly, one thing that’s always SUCH a huge turn-on is when she plays with her nipples and pussy during a BJ, whether it be with her fingers or a vibe or whatever. Just shows how hot she’s getting and how much she loves doing it. Adds another dimension for me too.

    Have fun!!

  20. During the BJ, gently squeeze and caress his balls. Let some wet/lubricated fingers circle around and over his butthole, and maybe venture inside, if he seems to like it. With a finger or two inside, and your palm facing up, curl your finger(s) towards his belly button and make a “come hither” motion to rub on his prostate. If all of that goes well, time to think about pegging him.

  21. Your doing great, you can change it up randomly.  Catch him coming home from work and meet him at the door ( pending family situation, kids obviously) surprise him in the shower or even out and about. 

  23. Lay upside down with your head on the edge of the bed and have him stand over you, feet on the ground, and facefuck you. He can rub your breast or finger you while he does it if you like.

    Often times, if he’s big enough, he can see the movement in your throat as he penetrates your mouth. It’s pretty hot.

    Try it.

  28. Laying on your back, partially upright, he straddles you with hands on the headboard or wall. He can thrust and you can have one hand on his cock and one caressing his balls or squeezing/slapping his ass.

  29. my partner is similar – she’s super into it and wants to do it all the time, here’s ways imo that you can mix it up

    once you get good, you can definitely make it happen fast, but try getting him most of the way there and then keeping him right at the edge for as long as you can before finishing. really light strokes on the edge and around the rim.

    learn how to really work pressure on the contractions to milk the hell out of the finish

    men are really visual – think about different ways you can make things exciting visually while it’s happening. lingerie, naked, getting on all fours, tight skirts, while he’s standing up and you’re kneeling, on all fours, getting it all on your tongue and showing him before swallowing.

    different places – sneaking into somewhere public, while he’s driving, interrupting him while he’s doing something else, etc.

    now do all of that together – make him hold off on any sex/touch for like a week, then dress up in some sexy outfit, edge the hell out of him, and go super hard at the finish, and you can leave him a wimpering pile of goo

  30. Touch yourself while you do it. Trust me you making the extra noises will take it up a notch

  31. Ya share your secrets. My husband never finishes from head and I’d love some pointers.

  32. Sis, it’s nice to finally meet my long lost twin! (It’s rare that I se other women open up about loving giving, so I feel like we all must be connected somehow lol)

  33. I also LOVE giving head! It’s basically a hobby at this point, and it’s been almost 15 years with the same man. Here are some of my favorites:

    *Him sitting on the couch, you kneeling in front of him

    *Him standing next to the bed, you laying on your back on the bed with your head hanging off the bed

    *Surprise blowjobs right before his alarm goes off

    *A mint, ice cube, or cinnamon gum in your mouth for a sensation change (ask first!!!)

    *Add anal play if he’s comfortable with it. It REALLY intensifies things

    *Hold a vibrator against him between his balls and ass

    *Use your hands, and give attention to the balls, as well as the internal part of the shaft under them!

    *Edge him. Get him close to orgasm, then stop for a few minutes. Make out with him or touch yourself or talk dirty to him, but don’t touch his genitals. When he’s cooled down a bit, repeat. Do this as long as he can handle it.

  35. As someone who’s wife did it early on in our relationship and now makes me feel guilty about it everytime I ask (which is generally after months have passed by since the last time I asked), your husband is a lucky man.

    My wife is also never going to allow me to finish in her mouth-which is something I’ve always wanted to do and never have done with anyone period. So I guess that’s something I’ll have to die never getting to experience.

    Your husband is lucky.

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