Mutually ended things yesterday with a man because we realized we could not see eye to eye on relationship dynamics. He, ver BATIM, told me that the man should be the head of House and the women should be his subordinate. I asked is he believes that ultimately the house should be ran like a dictatorship and he essentially said yes, a benevolent one. Oh, and when I asked if he would teach his children that he and his wife are equal he said no. He said a whole slew of other equally misogynistic and disturbing things, so when he asked if he should leave I said yes.
I cannot fathom looking into the eyes of another adult and telling them you will never view them as an equal. My stomach legitimately hurts