I (31F) have been seeing a partner (36M) more recently who I think is a bit freakier than me. We’ve had a lot of great intimate conversations, and mind blowing sex. He expressed to me yesterday that he really wants to try degrading me during sex… For context I’m a very sensitive person, I really value connection, sweetness, and care, especially when in the midst of things. Praise, I have a lot of experience in and love. Degradation obviously not so much, and I haven't ever really had any desire to try it. I kind of saw this coming because he's been saying more things about "using me" during sex recently (which I haven't hated so far).
Should I give it a go once just to say I tried? I wouldn’t want him to think that I don’t appreciate him because I like him so much and in a perfect world I could give him the pleasure he’s asking for. I think he has fun with our current dynamic, but I've been nervous that he’s feeling unsatisfied.