So I (M27) am in a situationship, or whatever, with this girl (F24). After deciding to take things slow like not making out when we meet and all that, because apparently that would make her fall in love and get attached so she wants some time to fix herself I suggested that we just hang out and that I wouldn’t initiate anything from my side. She agreed.
She said she likes hanging out with me and that we should do it more often, and I feel the same way. But whenever I’m in her area or nearby and ask if she wants to hang out, she always says nah she wants to sleep or gives some other BS reason. Then when I ask if she really likes hanging out with me, she says she does, but she wouldn’t put in any effort to meet whatsoever.
More context: She acts like she is interested tho, texts me whole day, calls whenever she is free we talk for hours. Flirting and all that stuff also looks forward to meet in groups but when I ask her to meet alone then she starts acting up. I don’t know what to make of this. She also says she avoidant out of blue which she was not in past relationships apparently. In fact she was completely opposite of this.