I’ve been trying to find guys to talk to online. For whatever reason, by the 2-week mark, all communication seems to go down.

Last week I started talking to a guy that matches me emotionally and is interested in getting to know me more. The communication between us for the first two days of talking was nonstop (context: he was on vacation, I’m on break from school and have no work). But when he traveled back home to normal life, communication became a lot slower. I communicated to him my clinginess and he expressed that he liked that I’m clingy and always thinking about him. I explained that the sudden change of messages being exchanged lessened killed me. He understood completely and sent a video https://youtube.com/shorts/Azh5o-dB9G4?si=YOxKacpAJiCt8umP without context. There’s a part of the video that I keep thinking about (recharge). He did tell me that although he’s busy with work and doing other things, it doesn’t mean he’s not thinking about me. He has sent me pictures randomly throughout our short time talking but haven’t heard much for two days, coming towards the 2-week mark. Due to my lack of relationship experience, which he is also aware of, I am not sure if I should be concerned that I haven’t heard from him (almost at the 2-week mark). I was the last person to send a message and waiting for him to initiate.

Should I be worried? How long should I wait for a response?

Any insight will be helpful!


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