I've been living in different European countries for a while now and noticed that dating culture varies a lot depending on where you are.
Recently got out of a situation where I ignored some obvious warning signs in early conversations – the inconsistency, the subtle manipulation, etc. Looking back at the chats, it was all there from the beginning.
Now I find myself almost "auditing" new conversations before investing too much time.
Curious about your experiences:
- Do you actively analyze your dating conversations for red flags?
- Have you noticed any cultural differences in how people communicate on dating apps across Europe?
- What's your biggest "I should have seen that coming" moment?
Not trying to be paranoid, just wondering if others do this too or if I'm overthinking it. 🙏
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It’s just common sense I feel like, not much to do with culture or nationality.
Some countries have it better than others like Sweden for example which allows you to Google anyone’s name and look up their address, job and criminal records.
I personally find red flags stick out a lot, so I don’t actively look for them they just tend to make themselves abundantly evident.