I don't know what else I can do. At 28, I've never had a girlfriend. And it's not for lack of trying. I take care of my clothes and see a beautician to take care of my face. I do activities outside of work: drawing, improv theater, singing, going to the gym. I've also tried (but i stooped because i don't like it) rock climbing, cooking, dancing, summer camps with people my age, dating apps, speed dating, approaches in the dtreet. But every time, the result is the same. Nothing. I try to connect with people, men and women alike; I don't play the desperate guy. But I always get immediate rejections, not even a single date. Maybe brute force and sheer repetitions aren't the best approach, but I don't see what else I can do. And it's getting to me, I know "it's not a big deal" and "love yourself before someone loves you" but I want intimacy with someone