I (32F) am trying to get my (30/31 M) boyfriend to give me oral sex. I, of course, asked if he felt comfortable doing it to me. He was, but we said he didn't really like my hairy vagina. He was very considerate and said he didn't mind it if it was trimmed. The problem is that I have trimmed in the past, and the hair got thicker and would hurt, because the curls would catch up against each other, irritating the skin. Plus, OBGYN has said not to shave or wax, because it would cause issues. So should I trim and try to be careful, or should I tell him to let it go? Note, I have PCOS and Early on set endo. So I have issues with hair removal. Plus, I never asked him to change his appearance or grooming, just told him to do what makes him feel good and healthy.
Edit: Thank you all for the replies! For those wondering the PCOS and Endo effects body har growth, and when shaved or trimming it can cause it to grow back thicked and harder to get rid of. Laser treatment as some suggested can be ineffective. Waxing carefulling by many orgs on the condition can be the only solution. For those who are wondering if he should just part it, I dont think that would help, but Ill see if it works. Im mostly trying to figure out is this a realtionship deal breaker or should I let it go. If I do trimm, I'll try to keep it trimmed, but sometimes I dont have the time. Personally, I'll never force him to do this, Ill firgure it out. But thank you all for the advice. Ill look back for more advice later.