My husband loves drinking. And if he's in good company he will be the last one to end the night and has always had troubles with saying "he's done for the night". We have 2 toddlers and I've expressed to him over and over that him going out late at night and coming home pissed drunk doesn't allow me to sleep well as I worry for his safety. There have been times he's not known where he is or how he's made it back home. Hes gone from drinking every weekend heavily to now drinking on occasion (which are frequent) and has still not shown much control and struggles with calling it a night unless the company he's with ends the night early. He is a great dad has a success career but his drinking affects me in a way that impacts my sleep and adds anxiety and the next day he's not his best self (lazy, hungover). How do I proceed? I know he wants to work on it but is unable to once a few drinks are in him and this is an issue I do not want to live with weekend after next. I also despise social events with him because of this that impacts our social life.