My gf and I had a bad fight over week ago and she mentioned wanted some time apart and needing space.
I didn’t respect the need right away only making things worse
She is now not talking to me doesn’t want me to even come by our home to do chores or care for dogs even when she’s gone at work or where ever.
Once I fully understood and respected the need for space i listened to what she wanted.
I figured after a couple days she would cool down a little bit and even if we continued with space and not being around each other she would at least start appreciating me wanting to help out again but 5 days and she is still very mad. And heard from a friend she may want to keep this up for weeks.
Idk at what point I say it’s too much and pull the plug.
I hoped we’d be at least talking by Xmas but is looking unlikely. I think I can only make it til her birthday (Jan 2nd) and if things haven’t changed in any way by then I don’t want them too am I being dramatic?