i (f22) cant tell if its a joke or not but im constantly being called stupid by not only my friends (which i think? is jokes, but sometimes go too far) but my family as well especially my mother and sister… they both say just because im decent at school(consistent b’s) but it doesnt mean im smart. i do agree to that but to an extent..
i know im very naive and i do lack the knowing of if im being “too much.” ive read so many social skills books so im working on that more. like small things like if feet are pointed away from you, or if the tones of their voice seem interested.
yet i still get very self conscious of me being “stupid.” i dont wanna scare ppl off bc im “stupid” and they feel theyr too smart/good for me…
anywhooo, what is your definition of stupid?