I finally stopped being embarrassed and went to the doc after a few months of having issues in the bedroom. I've also seen a therapist made adjustments to my porn consumption and masturbation habits but after 3.months of hit or (mostly) miss instances, finally just got blood work done and got a prescription for Viagra. Honestly, I already feel better about how freaking mundane it all was. No one even blinked at the prescription and my doc acted like I said I had a cold.
Anyway…I'm physically in great shape, faster and stronger than I've literally ever been, and am fairly successful and happy with my life so I'm hoping this is just a hill to climb and I need some help to crest it. Would love to hear other people's experiences!