Edit: 32M – Title given. I’ve had only one relationship this year and that ended in august, I haven’t gone on any dates since. I was diagnosed with two different types of cancer, I had one taken out via surgery and had radiation done to me. Working on the 2nd cancer currently. It’s been such a roller coaster but I still put a smile on my face everyday I get to wake up.

Things are looking up thankfully, I’ve been going to the gym and getting out of the house again, but I wish more than ever that I had someone in my corner to support me through this. Not do things for me, but to just be. I feel blessed to have made it this far, but I also have nooo prospects for dates lined up. No matches on dating apps, my dating life is a *drought* and I’m hoping that changes soon but in the meantime I’ll keep taking care of myself and in general giving myself some grace for what I’ve been through this year.

Cheers to everyone ending the year single. Here’s to hoping we find our person next year.


40 comments

  1. Sending you a lot of respect for how you’re handling this. One day someone’s going to be very lucky to be in your corner.

  2. This will be my 4th Christmas and New Year single. Woo! Going on my last 6 months of my 20s too

    Wishing you a full recovery and much happiness in 2026!

  6. 37F, got my heart broken in July and have spent the past months slowly recovering. NYE is the anniversary of when we met and he kissed me for the first time, so these next few weeks are going to be a bit rough.

    I won’t date at all in 2026, it hurts me too much when a relationship ends, and I can’t imagine putting myself through this kind of pain again anytime soon.

    Going to spend this next year getting in a better financial position, getting super fit, running my first ultramarathon, and focusing on my occult studies.

  8. It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time, and I can truly empathize with what you’re feeling. I also had a long-term relationship, over 5 years, and we broke up about 5 months ago. It’s been hard for me too, especially during the holidays when everything seems to highlight the lack of that person in your life.
    I really admire your strength in dealing with your health challenges while navigating the difficulties of being single and going through a “drought” on dating apps. It takes a lot of resilience to keep going and take care of yourself like you are. I hope that 2026 brings a fresh start for you, with recovery, happiness, and maybe even new connections. In the meantime, be kind to yourself you’re doing great. You’re not alone in this, and there are always better days ahead.
    Wishing you nothing but peace and healing as you move forward! 🌟

  9. This is my first Christmas/New Year single since I was a teenager. Broke it off with my wife just before summer, had the potential of something special with someone this autumn that didn’t pan out, and spent the last few months struggling in just about every facet of my life. So yay for me.

  10. went through what was probably the worst relationship of my life. ended in april.

    I’ve finally hit a point where I could date again, but it’s truly difficult to imagine how I’m going to find the right person. I’m 41.

  13. Focus on yourself, you’re healing, and journey! This will be my second Christmas in a row without a romantic partner and I’m okay! I’ll still have a lovely day with my family. Take a lil break and maybe 2026 will have more in store for you 🙂

  15. I’ve twice broken up with people on New Year’s Eve, so solid chance I’d end up starting the new year single, even if I wasn’t already single.

  18. My 7th year. I tried so so hard to change that this year…. Thought it was finally my turn before he ghosted in September after 5 months, being my boyfriend and meeting my immediate family. Feeling very frustrated, bitter about it all now especially being in my late 30s.

    I’m really sorry you’re going through a rough time.. wishing you the best for kicking the big Cs ass a 2nd time and the partnership you desire.

  22. Started the year single and will end the year single. I’ve been single all my life and I’m 23 years old. I do want to be in a relationship and eventually be happily married with children. I’ve been on the dating apps (Hinge and Bumble) on and off for sometime.

    I’ve been speed dating but to no success. I have tried going out and putting myself out there but no one I like approaches me and they always go for the other women which gets me very down and upset. I start thinking to myself what’s wrong with me? Am I too fat? Am I too short (I’m 4’8′-4’11 by the way).

    I see people in my age bracket/range in relationships even getting engaged and I always think to myself when and if I will ever get there? I understand that everyone’s life journeys and paths are different and everyone goes at different paces but even still it still gets too me.

    Sometimes I feel like I’m being too picky when it comes to men. I’d like a man to kind, loving, caring, loyal, funny, good listener, communicative, respectful, supportive, reliable, someone who has has a sense of purpose and handles conflict wisely and in a mature way.

    Physically I’d like him to be taller than me (5’4 and above), white (as a black woman I have always found white men attractive. All of the men I have crushed on whether it be the people I know or celebrities they all have one thing in common they are all white), any hair colour but coloured and I’m not into bald men.

    Eye colour, I’m not too fussed on eye colour but I do you like blue and grey eyes as I find those eye colours to be the most beautiful.

    Build wise I don’t want somebody who is very skinny or somebody who is very overweight/obese and I’m not a big fan of the extreme bodybuilder build.

    I like someone to love me and take care of me and enable me to be a stay at home wife and mother when we start having children.

    I want someone to love and take care of, I have so much love to give. I’m kind, loving, caring and loyal. I love to cook especially for a man who I love. I’d bring a man warmth, peace, love, care, loyalty, respect and kindness. I have never been in a relationship before and I’m a virgin and I dress very respectfully and modestly.

    I am hopeful and optimistic that in 2026, I will find somebody but I’d rather find somebody sooner rather than later but let’s see what 2026 brings me.

  24. Single here too!

    Wishing you a healthy life and to finding joy in this life with or without the one 🙃

  25. Me…relationship ended in January, took some me time, had a few dates in June/July but I’m done looking for now. SO many messages that went no where and it was taking a toll on me mentally, so I deleted all the apps and have just been spending time with friends and or my son. Prayers to you and your health for 2026! 💪🏻

  26. Broken up with my ex on November of this year. Was with her for 2 years. I’m M33. She is F30. Her mental health got in the way. 

  30. This is my first full year of my life in a relationship (we had most of 2024 but not the full year). It’s new for me but I’m really happy. I was single for most of my 44 years on this planet.

  32. I’ll be ending it single tooo! I’ve had a few dates this year but they didn’t work out. I was told the dates were tooo nice and that’s what made the guy panic ( they had commitment issues 🤷🏽‍♀️)

    I hope things get better for you and youuuuuuuuuuu get more dates!!

  34. Howdy SpicySenpai. I’m technically ending the year single, though I have had some luck come the end of this year w/ dating – in fact, I have lined-up a kiss at midnight on New Year’s Eve w/ the girl I’ve been seeing. I wanted to say good job putting yourself back out there, particularly in-spite of your condition. I hope the second cancer gets the boot quick, fast & in a hurry so that it can be fully in the rear view mirror. Good luck w/ everything; stay frosty 🫡

  35. 25F, ending this year single after a 7 year-long relationship and 1 failed talking stage. It wasn’t an easy year in terms of romantic relationships, but one of the best years in terms of growth and friendships 💖

  37. 🎶All the single people, put your hands up 🎶 🙋🏻‍♀️

    On a serious note, sending you prayers and stay tough!

  39. Still single it’s hard to find matches when you’re dealing with health stuff I just got mine under control last year and I still find it hard to find dates

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