This is my first relationship. I (21M) have been dating my GF (20F) for a couple months now and and she smells so bad that it almost makes me gag and showers only twice per week. I live in really hot climate. She's a student and takes web based classes so that's how she justifies her lack of showering
It’s gotten to the point where I’m uncomfortable being close to her physically. I don’t want to cuddle or be intimate when she smells, and that obviously affects the relationship. I also don’t think it’s fair that I’m expected to just tolerate it because I’m afraid of hurting her feelings.
I know this conversation is going to be uncomfortable, but I don’t see how avoiding it helps either of us.
TLDR: GF smells bad, how do I tell her to shower more?