So my boyfriend and I haven’t seen each other in nearly two weeks because our relationship isn’t great atm. I’ve been staying with my parents temporarily whilst he’s been living in our flat.
He’s been promising that we discuss our relationship and whether we are remaining together but keeps postponing the conversation because he’s been busy working and is tired. He has promised we will discuss things by tomorrow evening. I told him I needed space to think about things and then 5 minutes later he told me he’s going out for food with his colleague who’s a woman and they’ve only known each other a few weeks. Supposedly she knows about me and they’re just friends and he would never be interested.
It hurt because I haven’t seen him for two weeks and we haven’t been on a date in longer than that and i’ve been waiting for him to be ready to discuss things and yet he has time to go out with her. He promised he only loves me and has absolutely no interest in her but it feels like he’s keeping his options open so if things go well with her then he’ll dump me. Or he’s testing me to see if i have a bad reaction and will dump me if i do. I told him under no circumstances is he to pick her up and he calls me when he leaves. But i’m feeling so awful about this whole situation. Nobody I have asked thinks it’s okay for him to do this. It feels so disrespectful.