What’s a sexual experience you’d rate much higher or lower than people usually do?
December 17, 2025
What’s a sexual experience you’d rate much higher or lower than people usually do?
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Shower sex looks hot in movies but is mostly just slipping around and fighting gravity
69 is also kinda overrated, I get why people like it, but I find it hard to fully focus or enjoy when you’re trying to do two things at once
A good makeout session and quickies are underrated, genuinely fun when the timing and chemistry are right with your partner
Dirty talk. It makes everything more intimate. I have only been with a few partners among many who are very good at it. Many people are not good at it, though they believe they are. A certain intensity and creativity is required.
I am a switch but my partners are usually bottoms. I have had two partners who are good at dirty talk when I have acted as a bottom. I have met one partner who is good at dirty talk when I have acted as a top. This is in part because some affinity is required as well, and I have only had affinity for one bottom.
A good makeout is underrated.
I also think dirty talking is underrated. We only recently this year started doing it and the results I see when I do it with my wife definitely works
Every couple’s body is different. Also the same positions over and over get mundane. We used to have a patch that every session we used to do those 8 positions in that order. Finally we talked and now his job is to surprise me. Again positions are limited, so you have to try what works for you at any given time.
For me I think missionary is very under rated and anal is overrated.
It doesn’t always need to be full on sex. Make out sessions, HJs or oral sex can be fun on their own.
With the right person and the right eye contact, the right kind of whisper-y hot dirty talk… missionary is anything but boring and vanilla.
Being eaten out- just not for me. And the shock when I tell partners I don’t want it done to me, is always priceless. Tried it plenty of times with diff partners too- just never did much for me personally.
Swallowing is a must!!
Anal if done right, exceptional!
DP or more is way overrated and not practical!
If you are into humiliation, Golden showers are underrated!
FMF threesome ranking lower. Not because it wasn’t not good but because I realized that I’d much rather keep my men and women separate. I’m bi but I don’t want to be with both genders at the same time.
Overrated – 69
Underrated – standing up with my back on the wall, makeout/talking/launghing, foreplay (not really underrated but it’s not emphasized enough 🤣), back kisses!!!!
The position of “doggy”. I much much prefer being face to face with my partner, so I rate it lower.
69 is overrated. Like the Tom Segura bit, “are we late for something? why can’t we take turns?”
I highly rate standing up/ against the wall doggy and rate on all fours doggy. The former is orgasmic inducing for me and the latter can get uncomfortable/painful.
Highly rate being eaten out, a guarantee orgasm session. PIV not so much but it bangs when it’s a quickie. I love how powerful oral sex makes me feel.
Cuddle naked, neck kisses, gropping, neck licking, ear licking, making out passionatly all these little intimicies
People keep saying 69 is overrated but ive never seen anyone but me say they actually enjoy it. Its very much rated correctly…or even underrated.
And honestly shower sex isnt that bad.
Higher:
Making out, texting dirty while in a public setting like how she texts she is wet and texting back what I wanna do while in restaurant with people, spontaneous sex, reading dirty stories or watching hentai/porn.
Lower:
69, shower sex( slippery slop), public quickie (a huge disturbance for others).
Threesomes always end up feeling like 2 people having sex with someone else there.
We’ve lost the art of a good makeout/dry hump session. The build up. The anticipation. 80% of getting turned on (for me personally) is mental.
Higher: Missionary. I don’t understand the hate missionary gets. It’s intimate, it’s easy to find angles that feel great for both of us, it can be slow&gentle or rough, we can kiss and caress each other. It’s 100% my husband’s favourite position, he likes being in control and dominating while being gentle about it and missionary is perfect for that.
Higher: Devoting yourself for one partner. I used to be insecure about my lack of experience and when I got together first with my ex and later with my husband I was afraid I could not please them because I was not one of those wild cool girls. Now I’ve started to view it as one of my strengths, I find sex as form of devoting myself to my husband and that emotional intimacy has made me feel comfortable in our sex life, I love learning wats to make us feel good.
Lower: Reverse cowgirl. Awkward, impossible to relax, neither of us liked it. Shower sex sounds nice but in reality makes me afraid of slipping and breaking something.
Missionary while french kissing and looking each other in the eyes is the best .
i think sex when other people are nearby can be way overrated or underrated depending on the situation. sometimes the secrecy and adrenaline give it that teenage fever vibe and make it feel more exciting. but if the stakes feel too high and you’re genuinely anxious about being heard or interrupted, it completely kills the moment and isn’t enjoyable at all. it really depends on whether the tension feels playful or stressful.
Morning sex is overrated. Bad breath and all.
Mutual masturbation is very fun, imo. I think sometimes, when there isn’t enough time for sex, it’s preferred to oral or hand stuff. Like, let’s just take care of our needs and use each other for the visuals. Very intimate, and super hot
Sex really does get better as you get older believe it or not. Bonus if it’s with a spouse you love a lot and grown with.
Overrated: Receiving oral as a v haver. To each their own, but I just get so bored and it ruins the mood waiting for it to be over to get to the good stuff.
Underrated: literally just kissing. Making out. Foreplay is nothing without a good makeout
For being so obsessed with our boobs, men do not spend enough time on them in bed. The number of men I’ve dated who talked constantly about how much they loved my boobs, but did almost nothing beyond staring at them during sex is insane.
I can’t speak for other women, but mine are incredibly sensitive, and I get off so much faster and harder when a guy spends time sucking or playing with them.
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Shower sex looks hot in movies but is mostly just slipping around and fighting gravity
69 is also kinda overrated, I get why people like it, but I find it hard to fully focus or enjoy when you’re trying to do two things at once
A good makeout session and quickies are underrated, genuinely fun when the timing and chemistry are right with your partner
Dirty talk. It makes everything more intimate. I have only been with a few partners among many who are very good at it. Many people are not good at it, though they believe they are. A certain intensity and creativity is required.
I am a switch but my partners are usually bottoms. I have had two partners who are good at dirty talk when I have acted as a bottom. I have met one partner who is good at dirty talk when I have acted as a top. This is in part because some affinity is required as well, and I have only had affinity for one bottom.
A good makeout is underrated.
I also think dirty talking is underrated. We only recently this year started doing it and the results I see when I do it with my wife definitely works
Every couple’s body is different. Also the same positions over and over get mundane. We used to have a patch that every session we used to do those 8 positions in that order. Finally we talked and now his job is to surprise me. Again positions are limited, so you have to try what works for you at any given time.
For me I think missionary is very under rated and anal is overrated.
It doesn’t always need to be full on sex. Make out sessions, HJs or oral sex can be fun on their own.
With the right person and the right eye contact, the right kind of whisper-y hot dirty talk… missionary is anything but boring and vanilla.
Being eaten out- just not for me. And the shock when I tell partners I don’t want it done to me, is always priceless. Tried it plenty of times with diff partners too- just never did much for me personally.
Swallowing is a must!!
Anal if done right, exceptional!
DP or more is way overrated and not practical!
If you are into humiliation, Golden showers are underrated!
FMF threesome ranking lower. Not because it wasn’t not good but because I realized that I’d much rather keep my men and women separate. I’m bi but I don’t want to be with both genders at the same time.
Overrated – 69
Underrated – standing up with my back on the wall, makeout/talking/launghing, foreplay (not really underrated but it’s not emphasized enough 🤣), back kisses!!!!
The position of “doggy”. I much much prefer being face to face with my partner, so I rate it lower.
69 is overrated. Like the Tom Segura bit, “are we late for something? why can’t we take turns?”
I highly rate standing up/ against the wall doggy and rate on all fours doggy. The former is orgasmic inducing for me and the latter can get uncomfortable/painful.
Highly rate being eaten out, a guarantee orgasm session. PIV not so much but it bangs when it’s a quickie. I love how powerful oral sex makes me feel.
Cuddle naked, neck kisses, gropping, neck licking, ear licking, making out passionatly all these little intimicies
People keep saying 69 is overrated but ive never seen anyone but me say they actually enjoy it. Its very much rated correctly…or even underrated.
And honestly shower sex isnt that bad.
Higher:
Making out, texting dirty while in a public setting like how she texts she is wet and texting back what I wanna do while in restaurant with people, spontaneous sex, reading dirty stories or watching hentai/porn.
Lower:
69, shower sex( slippery slop), public quickie (a huge disturbance for others).
Threesomes always end up feeling like 2 people having sex with someone else there.
We’ve lost the art of a good makeout/dry hump session. The build up. The anticipation. 80% of getting turned on (for me personally) is mental.
Higher: Missionary. I don’t understand the hate missionary gets. It’s intimate, it’s easy to find angles that feel great for both of us, it can be slow&gentle or rough, we can kiss and caress each other. It’s 100% my husband’s favourite position, he likes being in control and dominating while being gentle about it and missionary is perfect for that.
Higher: Devoting yourself for one partner. I used to be insecure about my lack of experience and when I got together first with my ex and later with my husband I was afraid I could not please them because I was not one of those wild cool girls. Now I’ve started to view it as one of my strengths, I find sex as form of devoting myself to my husband and that emotional intimacy has made me feel comfortable in our sex life, I love learning wats to make us feel good.
Lower: Reverse cowgirl. Awkward, impossible to relax, neither of us liked it. Shower sex sounds nice but in reality makes me afraid of slipping and breaking something.
Missionary while french kissing and looking each other in the eyes is the best .
i think sex when other people are nearby can be way overrated or underrated depending on the situation. sometimes the secrecy and adrenaline give it that teenage fever vibe and make it feel more exciting. but if the stakes feel too high and you’re genuinely anxious about being heard or interrupted, it completely kills the moment and isn’t enjoyable at all. it really depends on whether the tension feels playful or stressful.
Morning sex is overrated. Bad breath and all.
Mutual masturbation is very fun, imo. I think sometimes, when there isn’t enough time for sex, it’s preferred to oral or hand stuff. Like, let’s just take care of our needs and use each other for the visuals. Very intimate, and super hot
Sex really does get better as you get older believe it or not. Bonus if it’s with a spouse you love a lot and grown with.
Overrated: Receiving oral as a v haver. To each their own, but I just get so bored and it ruins the mood waiting for it to be over to get to the good stuff.
Underrated: literally just kissing. Making out. Foreplay is nothing without a good makeout
For being so obsessed with our boobs, men do not spend enough time on them in bed. The number of men I’ve dated who talked constantly about how much they loved my boobs, but did almost nothing beyond staring at them during sex is insane.
I can’t speak for other women, but mine are incredibly sensitive, and I get off so much faster and harder when a guy spends time sucking or playing with them.