I’ve found myself in a state where I love everything else about my relationship and my partner so much that it makes me “okay” with not being happy about my sex life. I keep telling myself that relationships take work, that sex drive changes, and that this is what I means to commit to someone forever. But when I think about spending my life with my partner I can’t help but feel like I will never be sexually fulfilled.
I just don’t know what to expect. I’m not the first one to make a post like this on this subreddit. I read people say they spent 20 years like this before giving up and moving on. I’ve heard others stress that incompatibility build long lasting resentment and it’s better to move on quick.
What I’m trying to figure out is should I hold out for the future possibility that things get better or not? I don’t know how I’ll feel about this in 1 year, 5 years, 10 years. I just know I’m not happy about it today, and I’m not sure what to do.