I am not particularly experienced with full on sex. I've only had 1 other sexual partner (ex), but we had only done it less than 10 times before we broke up. Did only 1 position as well, missionary. I never even came.
Now I'm (29F) dating this wonderful man I'm proud to call my boyfriend (28M). Our sex is great and came to a discovery that I reach orgasm pretty quickly and learning a lot of new things along the way. However my bf told me he takes a while to cum (sometimes doesn't) and just never cums from head. This blew my mind a bit because I've always thought men could reach orgasm easier than women. I may had had 1 partner I had full on sex with, but had 4 in the past I gave head to and they've orgasmed. So this info is new to me based of my own personal experiences.
So I have a few questions:
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So far he mostly cums when I do all the top work. When in missionary/doggy, he doesn't reach it (maybe 3 times he has). Is that really a thing or could there possibly be an underlying problem?
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Also I've been really wanting him to finish in my mouth by head, but still haven't managed to and still trying. Everytime I ask him for some constructive criticism, I don't get anything useful that could improve my head skills lol he just says that everything feels good. Got any tips?