I went on an amazing first date over a week ago , we stayed out for hours & kissed at the end, he asked me to stay out longer but I had work. on a random night the texts became less. We were due to go on a second date last Saturday, but the Thursday beforehand he mentioned he needed to reschedule as he now had to drive to our date so couldn’t have alcohol (we planned to do mini golf), which I found odd. I said I was busy so we stuck to the plan.
On the Saturday he texted me “I’m feeling sick, not lying, might have to cancel” followed by a lot of “I promise I do want to see you again”s. He then said he’d have a nap but didn’t text me again to cancel properly until 5pm, our date was at 6. He then said he had to cancel due to working the next day. Which confused me & he called me intense when I asked for clarification on the reason. He asked me when I was free multiple times but every option I gave he’d just say he was busy. I asked if there was anyway he could move his plans but he said no. I told him I just felt like it was all excuses & he was messing me around. I got a sarky reply back, he again called me intense & said he’d told me in the morning he felt sick so didn’t understand my reaction. I said I didn’t intend to come across intense.
We were meant to meet last night but he again bailed as he felt tired & had told a friend he’d see him. I don’t know what to do. I feel I can’t say anything as he’s already labeled me intense after my reaction but it’s been almost 2 weeks now today since we had our first date. I feel he’s not giving it much of a chance & has just written me off due to how I reacted last Saturday.