I’m 24 and I’ve been single for 5 years. I’d say I’m pretty introverted. I don’t go to bars, clubs, parties, I don’t drink, I’ve never smoked, etc. and I wouldn’t want it any other way. Looks wise, not to sound like an ass, but I think I’m very attractive. I take care of myself, I have good hygiene, and I dress nice. I also love what I do as a career, and I’m extremely happy.
As far as going out, I have 2 friends that I occasionally hang out with. Usually we’ll go to one of our houses/apartments, or go to the city and walk around and eat somewhere. Or I’ll just do something by myself like see a movie or just do some attraction. Other than that, I don’t really go anywhere. Just things you’d do with friends or I do them by myself.
When I think of going to places like some club or workshop or class, it just makes me cringe. It just feels so forced and unnatural and it’s genuinely something I don’t see myself doing. I’d rather be by myself. At the same time, I’ve been single for 5 years. I just want to meet a girl and that’s it. I don’t want to go to a club or class and just socialize with a bunch of strangers. It’s just not me at all and I’d only be going there to get a girlfriend. It would be forced. I’m not like a full on hermit (ok maybe a little), but I just don’t wanna be an extrovert and go to those places and meet new people and probably never show up again if I get a girlfriend.
Is there something else I can do? Do you think someone could come into my life if I just continuing to do what I’m doing? Also I’m never using a dating app.