For context my wife of three years recently had to go through training at work for a new position. Apparently the trainer and her found they had some things in common and began chatting on her work chat (Teams).
like a week later the exchanged numbers to text about things nsfw like smoking weed.
I trust my wife but it makes me very uncomfortable that they have been texting nearly every day.
I brought this up and it lead to fight about me not getting to choose who she is friends with, even though I told her how much it bothers me that they seem to be moving so fast in this new friendship.
Am I just being paranoid or what? How do you all handle opposite sex friendships like this?