Hi there, my partner (36m) and I (33f) have been together for 4 years and living together for 2. We are both divorced.
The relationship has been difficult from the start for a lot of various reasons, which don’t really matter at the moment.
We have been seeing a couple therapist since July and things were starting to improve until last month, when the old patterns came back with interests.
Now we are both exhausted and discouraged.
I love this man insanely, but I wonder is it’s naive to keep trying to fix a relationship that is clearly not working. I don’t know if I am being too inpatient and need to give it more time maybe.
I know that it is a different journey for everyone, but I need some perspective.
For those of you who successfully saved the relationship, how long before you saw some improvement?