Back in October, I (23F) told my partner (24M) that I wanted to go to a pumpkin patch before October ended, he never asked or initiated plans and I just let it go. However, I did bring up that I was upset he never took me. Since this happened, at the beginning of November I told him since we did not go to a pumpkin patch, I wanted to go see Christmas lights. I even advised he should purchase tickets as soon as possible since prices increase the closer it gets to Christmas. We are now less than 3 weeks until December ends and he has yet to ask or even bring the plans up again. I don't want to bring it up as I want to see if he will remember or maybe he has already purchased them and I'm overreacting, but I also don't want to continue having to tell him exactly what I want…
TLDR: Partner hasn't initiated plans even after I asked