As a man approaching 30 I understand that what I have strived for – have money, nice car, my own flat which I believed will bring me women's attention doesn't help at all. I find it hard to realise that those things don't matter as much as I hoped to. How to accept this and accept because I might have a non existent personality despite me achieving more things up to 30 compared to my peers some of which still live on rent and some who have bad debt I am more likely to end up single forever.
I felt so good when I thought I can follow the life objectives like checkpoints in a video game and now nearing the final level I see that I am nowhere near where I wanted to be.