Im pretty introverted, and dating feels… overwhelming sometimes. i’m not shy exactly, but I struggle with knowing how much to say, when to show interest, and how to not overthink every tiny interaction.
i recently started trying to meet people (nothing serious yet), but I keep second-guessing myself — “did I sound weird?” “should I have texted back sooner?” — that kind of thing. i also worry that being quieter makes me seem uninterested even when I actually like someone.
for anyone who’s been through this:
- how did you get more comfortable putting yourself out there?
- any tips for showing interest without feeling like you’re forcing it?
- how do you stop overthinking everything you say or do?
any perspective would help. i’m trying to learn without completely burning myself out socially. thank you!