“If you were in my place, would you try to get her back or move on? How do you decide what’s the right step when your heart and your mind don’t agree?”

Two years ago, when I was trying to heal from a painful past—being cheated on multiple times—I met a girl in a café. Back then, I used to sit alone, trying to move on. Slowly I made a few friends, and among those new faces, she entered my life.

She wasn’t perfect—sometimes silly, sometimes lost—but she was pure, real, and comforting. Being with her felt peaceful. Over time, I got attached, maybe more than I expected. But somewhere along the way, misunderstandings, distance, and mistakes happened. Now she’s gone.

I still miss her… sometimes more than I want to admit. I want her back, but I don’t know if that’s the right thing or just my emotions making me weak. I can’t sleep some nights thinking about her. And I’m confused—should I try again or should I let her go for my own peace?