30M & 26F
Met this girl on an app, instant chemistry, slept together on the first date. Kept seeing each other almost every week for 6 weeks straight (6 dates total) – tons of sex, sleepovers, cuddling, the whole thing. She was ridiculously affectionate in person and over text. Literally 3-4 weeks ago she was still hitting me with “miss you so much, miss your cuddles, miss your arms around me” type messages multiple times a day.
Then the texts slowly started drying up. The excitement disappeared, the lovey-dovey stuff completely stopped, replies got short and delayed. Two weeks ago she said she couldn’t meet that weekend because of work. I said “no worries, just let me know when you’re free next week.”
That was the last message I ever got from her. 10 days of pure silence now. Full ghost.
I genuinely did not see this coming at all. Shit, how does someone go from nonstop “I miss you” and heart emojis to treating you like a complete stranger overnight? It’s like I woke up and she erased everything. Either the sex turned bad for her (she never acted like it), she lost every bit of interest as fast as she got it, or she found someone else and didn’t have the decency to say anything.
Just feels surreal and shitty. Anyone else experience this whiplash from super lovey-dovey to total ghost like you never even existed?