So I (25 F) am seeing this guy (27M). We hadn’t seen each other since a week or two before thanksgiving and while that didn’t necessarily bother me since I was working and I kinda have a life of my own. But I didn’t realize how much I actually missed him until he asked me to spend the night with him and I genuinely couldn’t keep my hands off of him. Of course we got to being intimate, but afterwards, I just wanted to bask in his presence, ie: hugs, kisses and all that stuff and he was receptive but then we bantered for a bit and I asked for a small kiss and he said, “ohhhkay, now you’re being too needy.” I did tone it down a bit after that, but I just feel kinda awful. Like I was rejected. But also like I messed up? I admit I’m a very affectionate person and my love language is absolutely touch. I like to share heat and time and space with my person. And I’d given him fair warning well before we even saw one another that I’d be all over him. But now, I’m questioning everything about my approach to… affection? I don’t really get jealous easily or need to check phones or things like that, but I do love hard.
I just wanna know what I’m doing wrong?