My partner said I’m not initiating sex enough. This is the third boyfriend who has given me this critique. I can’t help but assume the problem is me, however I don’t think I’m committing this offense at all. I have a high libido, I rarely say no to sex, and I flirt and tease when I want to get some. What more do they want? Give me advice on what to say. I think it has to be related to a difference in what men assume to be initiating sex or maybe it’s the fact that he wants it three times a day and I have no room to initiate anything else. Help! I feel like I’m not the only one who’s dealt with this.