So from what I'm seeing, what I should do is just go out and do hobbys that I want to try (I work from home so it's easy to just go gym, go home, run errands)
I'm early 30s. I'm "introverted" and don't ever want to go back to my homecountry, I want to create a dream life but I value community/relationships etc so I got to do something about it.