I don’t know if anyone else has experienced this, but it’s been on my mind lately.
I’m in BTech, and not once have I had a genuine conversation with a girl as a friend. The only times I’ve spoken to girls in college were purely work-related — assignments, projects, coordination stuff. Nothing personal, nothing friendly, nothing that felt like a real connection.
It’s not that I don’t want to talk… I just never find someone who feels comfortable enough to be friends, or maybe I’m not able to express myself in a way that opens that door. I’m not looking for romance or anything dramatic — I just genuinely wish I had a female friend I could talk to normally. Someone to share thoughts with, exchange perspectives, and just understand life from a different point of view.
Sometimes it feels like everyone around me naturally forms mixed friend circles, and I’m the only one who never did. Maybe I’m overthinking, but it hits a little harder when you start feeling left out of something so simple.
If someday I do get a female friend I can speak to without hesitation, I think it would mean more than I can describe.