Here's the situation:

So there's this girl at my local gym I really like. Every other time I see her at the gym and we talk and have a really good conversation, the vibes are good, she seems really engaged when talking to me, as I am with her. This has been going on for the past 3-4 weeks. In fact, just yesterday she suggested we workout together soon, which I saw as a good sign.

As such, today I asked her if she wanted to workout together this week and she said Tuesday would work best for her, she said however that she plans on working out a little earlier than I normally do, to which I replied saying I could come earlier too, and at that point she agreed and seemed okay with that. What worries me a little as that it seems like there was a lack of enthusiasm? I'm still not sure, could be overthinking it.

Some crucial details I should make note of, she works at the gym and she works out there.

At this point I believe it is possible she's just being polite and meant to decline/ let me down politely by bringing up how she planned to workout at an earlier time.

I'm also recalling a famous quote on this matter, "if its not a hell yes, its a no". I really like her but I'm worried I may be better off pulling away. My plan right now is to have the workout with her on Tuesday and see where things go but I want some outside less biased perspectives on the matter.

And if you have any other questions please let me know, thank you for reading 🙂


Leave a Reply