I know the obvious answer is yes I should tell her. The thing is her and I have had history going on 3 years.
And let’s say the first time we tried to do it, I had performance anxiety that affected me heavily for a long time and I’m just now overcoming it realising it was all in my head.
And then I did some stupid immature things when I was younger that caused us to drift apart but we always kept in touch even if it was slight.
She’s showing me interest again and she mentions how much I’ve changed and I believe I have but I’m still a virgin and I feel like if I told her in her head she might lose interest or think I’m a loser which I know is dumb to think off.